Comments on --=Ana's Cyber Retreat=-: Why Filipinas are marrying Western men

To you Dauph and In-in, sumulat lang kasi ako abou...

2008-11-17T05:28:00.000-05:00

To you Dauph and In-in, sumulat lang kasi ako about this dahil sa we sort of debated about the U.S. Government giving assistance to its people in need and some awful assumptions about the new president elect. My husband read the comments saying "it is stealing from the rich and giving it to the poor, so they can be lazy" with also hearing if "you don't work you don't eat"-from other Pinay...and

Hala basta ako Ann, I am happy to where I am now, ...

2008-11-17T03:10:00.000-05:00

Hala basta ako Ann, I am happy to where I am now, I am married to a man who is much older than me, there is nothing wrong I see. I am even so proud nakakita kog lalaki sa buhay ko na I think is right guy LOL! He is indeed the right guy. I don't care what other people say about me and my hubby even we are holding hands outside. What matters most is that we both know our feelings. Lisod e explain

An you know what is funny? I never cared what othe...

2008-11-17T02:11:00.000-05:00

An you know what is funny? I never cared what other people think of us Filipinas marrying westerners nor was I ever hurt. Yes kasing edad ra nako akong bana pero limpyo akong conscience and never guilty with anything. Basta lang nagmalipayon ko sa akong kinabuhi diri bisan unsaon pa nila ug comment di jud ko affected. Anyways, you made a good point but at the end what is important is the union

Indeed, I am afraid that we’ll never come to a con...

2008-11-17T00:22:00.000-05:00

Indeed, I am afraid that we’ll never come to a conclusion in which we would agree with each other’s opinions. You’re right, that we are nothing alike, because I for one; couldn’t see myself with saying people are being lazy just because they are getting their Social Security Incomes (it’s not welfare by the way in case you are only confused)-that they worked so hard for, all their lives-and that

ur absurd and combative rhetoric is just trying to...

2008-11-16T23:02:00.000-05:00

ur absurd and combative rhetoric is just trying to convince urself that we're all the same but we're nothing alike and will never be!

Hi Rissa,

I am talking about people in gene...

2008-11-16T20:03:00.001-05:00

Hi Rissa,

I am talking about people in general seeing our marriages as a business arrangement and that we need not to explain anything. Neither you nor can I ever convince people that we married our husbands because we loved them, etc. I am sharing how the general public views our situation having old husbands. Anyway, you were talking about people being lazy because they just sit around

Hi In, thanks for sharing your side of the story h...

2008-11-16T19:50:00.000-05:00

Hi In, thanks for sharing your side of the story ha. I appreciate it. We all have our views and I am only making a point that the general public sees us Filipinas being mga gold digger unya mga husband perverts, so masakit baya oy, pero saon kay mao man na ila tan-aw sa mga Pinays. Dah, we can't do anything na kay ang uban man god imposing kaayo, they will hurt people gani kong di mo take their

i was surprised to know that your marriage is a "b...

2008-11-16T16:34:00.000-05:00

i was surprised to know that your marriage is a "business arrangement" but i admire you for your honesty. i can see where you and your husband are getting your opinions from. however, this does not give any of you especially him to generalize. it doesn't also mean that those who are in-love and happy with their marriages aren't truthful. i am aware of the fact about other pinays too but the

Well said An and I like your post, it is up front ...

2008-11-16T14:05:00.000-05:00

Well said An and I like your post, it is up front no pretensions. Ako on the other hand was because of preference. I have always admired the beauty of western men, it is not that there is something wrong with the Pinoys. There is something in them that I really loved. I was looking but not in a hurry. Ok ra man sad ko kong sa ato ra sad ko since I already started teaching in an international

I share somewhat of your thoughts about being youn...

2008-11-16T14:00:00.000-05:00

I share somewhat of your thoughts about being young wanting to have a Kano bf ha, I was about your age when I also started...LOL. I was inspired by the union of my cousin na she and her hubby looked so sweet ba at comfy life. However, she met her husband sa Pinas kasi on a business trip daw (may 2 Western bfs siya taga New York ang usa-they visited her uban uban niya), then she also had mga bfs

Hi An, nagsugod nako submit sa akong resume at an ...

2008-11-16T07:17:00.000-05:00

Hi An, nagsugod nako submit sa akong resume at an agency last tues. Naa ko test this Tues. raw for typing, word, excel and all that. We'll see if there's anything out there for me. As for my father, dli pa pwde kay wala pa man iyang SSN. It takes 2mos daw to get it.

Regarding your entry naman, nice of you to be honest. I've known people who got different motives to marry a kano. 1 -